窗外的風放肆呼嘯著,吹動的不是衣角,吹亂的不是髪
酷酷的生活中卻沒有酷酷的心情
情感的付出是ㄧ份真心,尤其是無求的友宜
男女之間不變的友宜是最珍貴的,在沒有起化學變化前,是的!
如果彼此之間的友宜同時產生了化學變化,那份友宜將會醞釀成什麼呢?
是未知數的愛情開端呢?還是會抹煞友宜幼苗的因素呢?
如果只有一方產生了化學變化-----嗯~將會有什麼結果呢?
經過單方的努力得到花好月圓的結果,這是最好的嗎?
也許花未好,月未圓之前就結束這份情感,相愛容易相處難啊!(老話一句)
經過單方的努力得到維持原狀的結果,這是好的嗎?
也許經過這單方的變化,友宜將會慢慢淡化,因為之間有一點---尷尬啊~
經過單方的努力得到沉默無應的結果,這好嗎?
經過單方努力得到無應,是對方錯愕的反應,也許另一方沒這化學變化
也許另一方很~很~很~很珍惜友宜,但;並不預期產稱生如此的化學變化
錯愕後有人會一笑置之,錯愕後有人會躲藏起來,不想傷害對方
錯愕後-----太多,太多的情緒,每一個人----不相同
也許~時間與空間是最好的吧!對雙方而言
也許~維持友宜是最明智的吧!
只要雙方有真正的誠意,友宜常存不是沒有可能的
綁架友宜成為愛情----這----不是好方法
思慮一下吧!因為每一個人的情感步伐速度不一樣
有人快步行於愛的路上,有人慢步細細觀察,有人因為擔憂而停止卻步
無論是哪一個步伐都必須尊重,不然沉默無語將是回答
收不到回應超不好受的,但是;想想~被綁架的感覺好嗎?
難道對方沒血,沒肉,沒感受嗎?不會難過痛失一份真誠的友宜嗎?
也許對方難過的為失去這份真誠友宜而披麻帶孝服喪呢!
凡事多想想吧! 必能皆大歡喜~
任何情感都不是單方面的,親情,愛情,友情----都是
請勿光想對方為什麼這樣?為什麼那樣?而卻不想想自己怎樣了
不要只看到一方的不是,卻完全忽略了本方的缺失 拜託了~
門裡看門外,門外看門裡,請換位思考吧!
聽歌吧! 不! 先看一段今年超紅的廣告吧!
2014 Budweiser Super Bowl Commercial---"Puppy Love"
** 開車不飲酒 飲酒不開車 行車安全第一 祝 平安 **
Let Her Go
"Let Her Go"
Well you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missin' home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go
Staring at the bottom of your glass
Hoping one day you'll make a dream last
But dreams come slow and they go so fast
You see her when you close your eyes
Maybe one day you'll understand why
Everything you touch surely dies
But you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missin' home
Only know you love her when you let her go
Staring at the ceiling in the dark
Same old empty feeling in your heart
'Cause love comes slow and it goes so fast
Well you see her when you fall asleep
But never to touch and never to keep
'Cause you loved her too much
And you dived too deep
Well you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missin' home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go
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